In some ways, we each seek influence with others.  We might express preferences, share opinions, hold firmly to values, set boundaries, and so forth.  In the best sense, we wish…

It’s simply a fact, narcissists can trigger many raw feelings within you.  With their controlling ways and impenetrable defenses, coordination can feel impossible, and this can create within you a…

It’s one thing for narcissistic people to be selfish or contrarian.  Frankly, each of us has moments when we enter that space.  Healthy people know how to contain selfish instincts,…

Narcissists live inside a fantasy script, written by and starring themselves.  Pushing uncomfortable realities aside, they cling to idealistic notions that promise them control, entitlement, admiration, and superiority.  In their…