Being selfish to the core, narcissists are not interested in connecting with you beyond the utility you represent to them.  They must be in the power position, which automatically means…

As you come to terms with the nature of covert narcissism, stay focused on the concept of covertness.   Covert narcissists are defined by the same dark traits of their…

Narcissists can be friendly, until they’re not.  As long as you are docile and compliant (or at least willing to stay out of their way), they can contain the worst…

In a high percentage of cases, relationships with narcissists are unsustainable.  It may be that you will need to cease contact with that person altogether.  Barring that possibility, you may…

First question:  If you have had an ongoing relationship with a narcissist, have you been victimized?  The likely answer is yes.  They are defined by their exploitive tendencies, dishonesty, irresponsibility,…

Have you ever made choices, then later reconsidered, asking: “What was I thinking?”  Of course, you have.  Each of us has experienced undesirable consequences due to soured relationships, personal imperfections,…

For better or worse, parents will have a powerful impact on their sons’ and daughters’ quality of life, and that impact will last a lifetime.  Ideally, a child’s history on…

Gaslighting has become a very popular word these days, understandably so.  It refers to a narcissist’s intent to create confusion in other people as a means of manipulating.  When narcissists…

Let’s suppose you’ve been proactive in getting away from a strongly narcissistic person.  You’ve chosen to do a better job prioritizing personal initiatives.  You’re less inclined to defend, holding your…