Freedom is defined as the privilege to choose. Sometimes you choose well, other times poorly. Either way, you still get to choose who you will be. You can certainly consult…
Continue readingA crucial first step in finding freedom is understanding the role of dependency in your life, and bringing it into balance. When you are in controlling relationships, imbalance is in…
Continue reading“Well, it’s different when I’m the one telling you what to do. Me controlling you is necessary.” Does this sound familiar? If it does, you are looking right at the…
Continue readingIf you are connected with a very pathological narcissist, there is a high probability that you have experienced ongoing stress, and are blamed for any strain that is present. Narcissism…
Continue readingMalignant Narcissist’s have an attitude of entitlement and their motto is, “It’s all about me.” As we begin to talk about the primary characteristics that go into the making of…
Continue readingCan a narcissist actually change? Often the answer to “can a narcissist change” is, no. But sometimes conviction comes upon that person and change is possible, though not easy. There…
Continue readingMy name is Joan and I’m the Scapegoat of my family… My mother and two sisters present with all the patterns of behavior that are typically associated with a narcissist…
Continue readingAs you try to make sense of narcissism, a primary pattern to watch for is gaslighting in relationships. Let’s remember first that narcissists are self-enamored individuals who want to have…
Continue readingNarcissism can be displayed in a very wide array of patterns. There are many different “types of narcissism.” Think of a hub of a wheel and the spokes that extend from…
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