Narcissism is defined by the need for control, the lack of empathy, an attitude of entitlement, self-centeredness, pathological defensiveness, a need to be superior, and more. As difficult as narcissists…
Continue readingAs a healthy person, you can be at an odd disadvantage when you try to connect with narcissists. Your natural inclination would be to treat others respectfully in the attempt…
Continue readingA common complaint I hear from individuals trying to coordinate life with a narcissist is: “Whenever we have to address differences, our discussions get absolutely nowhere.” Has that ever been…
Continue readingWhen you are a healthy person relating with another healthy person, the rules of engagement are simple and straightforward: I’ll show you respect just as I know you will in…
Continue readingDo you ever have moments of anger? Of course, the answer is yes, in the sense that each person feels this emotion at some level, and there are multiple types…
Continue readingI’m often asked why people develop narcissism, and the causes of narcissism, that’s not an easy question to answer since there are so many possibilities. Let’s just say that young,…
Continue readingAs a free person, you get to decide when and how to exert control, and therein lies the challenge. As you build a life of freedom, you will need to…
Continue readingFreedom is defined as the privilege to choose. Sometimes you choose well, other times poorly. Either way, you still get to choose who you will be. You can certainly consult…
Continue reading“Well, it’s different when I’m the one telling you what to do. Me controlling you is necessary.” Does this sound familiar? If it does, you are looking right at the…
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