Do you ever seek gratifying experiences? Of course, you do. You prefer to spend time with your favorite people. You naturally enjoy favorite meals, entertainment, outdoor activities, moments of ease,…
Continue readingKeeping in mind that narcissism is a pattern on a spectrum, the far end of that spectrum leads to malignant narcissism, a term used for hard-hearted people who don’t care…
Continue readingSadly, narcissists build an entire persona upon one falsehood after another. Hiding behind a False Self, they concoct distortions for the purpose of propping up a narrative of their superiority…
Continue readingConsider some of a narcissist’s most egregious tendencies: contempt, easy anger, inability to manage conflict well, lots of criticism, defensiveness, dishonesty, condescension, and much more. Each of these inclinations reveals…
Continue readingCan narcissists change? The answer is “yes, but.” They can change, but are they willing to do the work, no matter how unnatural it would feel? That’s the more pertinent…
Continue readingAs you seek safety and harmony in any relationship, the most necessary ingredient is trust. And for trust to take hold, you need honesty, reliability, and accountability. In other words,…
Continue readingTwo things about narcissism can be said with great certainty. First, narcissists have anger issues. Their life script is defined by selfishness and entitlement, so when events don’t unfold as…
Continue readingIt is incredibly difficult to maneuver through relationship challenges with narcissists because they cannot come to terms with differences between themselves and you. Defined by selfishness, they are incapable of…
Continue readingA primary skill for personal growth is introspection. When you are willing to examine yourself honestly and objectively, good things can result. Using analytical thinking, you can focus on the…
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