The Counter Controlled Loop – Quit Trying to be so In Control
As a free person, you get to decide when and how to exert control, and therein lies the challenge. As you build a life of freedom, you will need to…
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Controlling Relationships: It’s Time For You to Decide How You Will Live
In controlling relationships, deciding for yourself might seem like an impossible task. Why it Makes Sense for you to Decide How You Will Live, Even if the Controller Disagrees: Think…
Continue readingUniqueness in Thoughts, Feelings, and Perceptions are Inevitable
Freedom is defined as the privilege to choose. Sometimes you choose well, other times poorly. Either way, you still get to choose who you will be. You can certainly consult…
Continue readingThe Controllers Obvious Illogic, and How This Happens
“Well, it’s different when I’m the one telling you what to do. Me controlling you is necessary.” Does this sound familiar? If it does, you are looking right at the…
Continue readingPathological Narcissism Checklist
If you are connected with a very pathological narcissist, there is a high probability that you have experienced ongoing stress, and are blamed for any strain that is present. Narcissism…
Continue readingCan a Narcissist Change?
Can a narcissist actually change? Often the answer to “can a narcissist change” is, no. But sometimes conviction comes upon that person and change is possible, though not easy. There…
Continue readingScapegoat of the Family
My name is Joan and I’m the Scapegoat of my family… My mother and two sisters present with all the patterns of behavior that are typically associated with a narcissist…
Continue readingIgnoring the Narcissist: 5 Questions to Ask Yourself
Ignoring the Narcissist may be difficult, but in the end, well worth the struggle After extended exposure to narcissists, you begin realizing that they have taken up residence inside your…
Continue readingThe Narcissist Silent Treatment: Covert Narcissism
The Narcissist Silent Treatment is a classic treatment used by the Covert Narcissist. Let’s begin with a reminder of what drives narcissistic behavior. Narcissists feel they must be in the…
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