The Counter Controlled Loop – Quit Trying to be so In Control
As a free person, you get to decide when and how to exert control, and therein lies the challenge. As you build a life of freedom, you will need to…
Continue readingAs a free person, you get to decide when and how to exert control, and therein lies the challenge. As you build a life of freedom, you will need to…
Continue readingControllers routinely overlook your fundamental right to be free as they concoct all sorts of plans for your life, and they are more than willing to let you know their…
Continue readingIn controlling relationships, deciding for yourself might seem like an impossible task. Why it Makes Sense for you to Decide How You Will Live, Even if the Controller Disagrees: Think…
Continue readingFreedom is defined as the privilege to choose. Sometimes you choose well, other times poorly. Either way, you still get to choose who you will be. You can certainly consult…
Continue reading“Well, it’s different when I’m the one telling you what to do. Me controlling you is necessary.” Does this sound familiar? If it does, you are looking right at the…
Continue readingIf you are connected with a very pathological narcissist, there is a high probability that you have experienced ongoing stress, and are blamed for any strain that is present. Narcissism…
Continue readingMalignant Narcissist’s have an attitude of entitlement and their motto is, “It’s all about me.” As we begin to talk about the primary characteristics that go into the making of…
Continue readingCan a narcissist actually change? Often the answer to “can a narcissist change” is, no. But sometimes conviction comes upon that person and change is possible, though not easy. There…
Continue readingMy name is Joan and I’m the Scapegoat of my family… My mother and two sisters present with all the patterns of behavior that are typically associated with a narcissist…
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